When we can no longer change a situation, its the time to changed our self.

Failures is simply a way to your success.

What you've already known stops you to wonder and it gives you peace.

Don't decrease the goal, increase the effort. Its a contiguous movement towards a goal and continuous improvement of working practices, personal efficiency that will create a great results. - Glenda B. Radores

If he treats you a choice like A, B, C, and D, help him understand that YOU are not belong in the choices.